Introducing Charlotte, a Sexological Bodyworker and Tantric Masseuse who weaves compassion, ritual, and presence into a tapestry of self-expansion and Read more
World Sexual Health Day
The September 4th World S*xual Health Day campaign this year, focusses on consent. Their messaging is important and clear, but Read more
Man in bed
According to datingscout.com and the abundant ways to celebrate s*x, Friday July 21st is National Handjob Day. And I can’t help but Read more
man on beach
Introduction: In today's fast-paced world, stress and tension have become all too common. The need for relaxation, self-discovery, and connection Read more
Two hands reaching out and touching
From working with hundreds of men, I have seen how much pressure they often feel around s*x, desire and intimacy. Read more
Prostate: Pain, Pleasure and Awareness
March is Prostate Cancer Awareness month and it feels very timely as in just two weeks I have met four Read more
The Joy of Transforming Troublesome Turn-Ons
Unearthing my darkest fantasies isn’t something I thought I would ever be comfortable talking about publicly. But it’s part of Read more
The Sensual Potential of the Soft C*ck
Co-authored with Alison Pilling Not getting an erection or losing an erection during intimacy is for many men pretty much Read more
How to know if you or someone you know is in a toxic relationship (and what to do about it)
There’s a lot of stigma around men admitting that they are or have been, in an abusive relationship. What gets Read more
Video: The Biggest Obstacle to Great S*x
One of the biggest obstacles that shows up in my work with clients is shame - not the sexiest of Read more
Unsure where to start sorting out your sex life? Stepping into the Hero’s Journey could be a great start for Read more
Good luck to you, Leo Grande
I saw this movie nearly a week ago and it's still ‘with me’ so much so that I had to Read more
You are not broken - and you don’t need to be fixed!
So much of the porn industry, the wellbeing industry, pharmaceutical companies, Hollywood and especially the sexual wellness industry is focused Read more
Not Just Sex
Many men who come to me are seeking excitement and discovery of the unknown. And many more men come to Read more
Finbar Shields
This week I met Finbar Shields at an online erotic storytelling event. His words resonate so strongly with how I Read more
I love working with you folks for lots of reasons and right now, one of those reasons that I am Read more
Intention
I love language and the way it affects our neuro circuitry, which in turn affects the way we feel about Read more
fingers on water
What do you do when you’ve done everything and you want more? So you’ve mastered being able to cum when Read more
Finger to lips
Consent. It’s is a word that conjures up all manner of reactions and in my work, I’ve met most of them; Read more
Sex Actually Hero
If you want a better understanding of how Professional Sexuality Practitioners like me can help with all kinds of issues Read more
The transition to the shorter days of autumn can have an impact for many of us on our libido, our Read more
online sessions
I am a bodyworker and I offer pleasure-based massage and therapeutic somatic touch, and so you can imagine why I Read more
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Many men have come to me as a last resort when they have exhausted all medical avenues to resolve the Read more
As a Somatic Sex Coach, premature ejaculation is probably the number one concern that clients bring to me. Often in Read more
Video: Why men find it difficult to seek help with sexual problems
Watch my video 'Why men find it difficult to seek help with sexual problems'. English subtitles are available for this Read more
Video: Touch changes lives
Watch the video of the talk Touch Changes Lives delivered at The Sex Lectures Manchester in December 2018 Read more
Tantra is a vast and holistic philosophy for living that incorporates wisdom from the Taoists of ancient China and the Read more
Spring is about waking up. Coming out of hibernation. With lockdown now easing those of you hoping to date again Read more
 

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