According to datingscout.com and the abundant ways to celebrate s*x, Friday July 21st is National Handjob Day. And I can’t help but smile as this date also happens to be my birthday 😊
I intend to celebrate by self-pleasuring on the sunny Isle of Ibiza and I wonder what you might do to celebrate? In the spirit of helping you to enrich all things pleasurable, I invite you to enhance your own self-touch experiences by exploring and understanding your own body and sexual preferences.
Here are a few tips that may be helpful:
Relaxation: Create a comfortable and relaxed environment that allows you to focus on your own pleasure. Take some time for yourself, away from distractions and stress.
Move more: Do you usually lie down? Why not try sitting up or even standing up and moving around in space. Or celebrate your sexy self by watching your own arousal in the mirror even! Whatever your usual physical position change it, move it, switch it around and see what impact this has on your body, sensations and your arousal.
Exploration: Take the time to explore your body and discover what feels pleasurable. Experiment with different techniques, strokes, and pressures to find what works best for you.
Lubrication: Using lubrication can enhance sensations and reduce friction, making the experience more enjoyable. Experiment with different types of lubricants to find the one that suits you.
Fantasy and Imagery: Incorporate your imagination and fantasies into your self-pleasure routine. Erotic thoughts or visual stimulation (such as erotica or adult content) can heighten arousal and pleasure. But once you’ve kick started your arousal, try to let this stimulus go and tune into your body’s natural arousal, following the pleasure.
Edging and Delayed Gratification: Edging involves bringing yourself close to orgasm and then pausing or slowing down before reaching the point of no return. This technique can increase intensity and lead to more powerful orgasms.
S*x Toys: Consider exploring the use of sex toys specifically designed for your body. These devices can provide different sensations and add variety to your self-pleasure routine.
Mind-Body Connection: Pay attention to the sensations and the connection between your body and mind. Practice mindful self-pleasure by being fully present in the moment, focusing on the pleasurable sensations you’re experiencing.
Self-pleasure is a personal and individual experience, so get curious and give it a go! Remember that what works for one person may not work for another. It’s important to respect your own boundaries, desires, and comfort levels.
And of course if you would like to explore and expand your experiences, I offer Self Pleasure Coaching, Tantric Massage and The S*xual Empowerment Programme.