I love language and the way it affects our neuro circuitry, which in turn affects the way we feel about ourselves and behave towards ourselves and others. To me the very word ‘resolution’ brings to mind a fixed jaw, a
The answer to your quest
What do you do when you’ve done everything and you want more? So you’ve mastered being able to cum when you want, you have no problem with your erections, you feel OK with your body and your masturbation is going
The 7 letter word on everybody’s lips
Consent. It’s is a word that conjures up all manner of reactions and in my work, I’ve met most of them; from fear to apathy; anxiety to rolling of eyes and anger to curiosity and everything in between. And then there
Sexual healing and sex positivity in the media
If you want a better understanding of how Professional Sexuality Practitioners like me can help with all kinds of issues around sexual wellness and wellbeing then check out these two shows: Sex Actually with Alice Levine. This UK documentary series
How does the changing season affect your sex drive?
The transition to the shorter days of autumn can have an impact for many of us on our libido, our levels of arousal and our availability for intimacy either with and for ourselves or with partners. Our sexual interest is
Body work on Zoom? What to expect from online sessions
I am a bodyworker and I offer pleasure-based massage and therapeutic somatic touch, and so you can imagine why I was sceptical about working online. I was always reluctant to do it, that was, until the pandemic hit! Firstly, it’s
Stop fighting sexual dysfunction – Surrender with Tantric Massage
Many men have come to me as a last resort when they have exhausted all medical avenues to resolve the challenges they face in their intimate lives. They come here feeling defeated, lost and inadequate. Sexual dysfunction has taken its
So what really is the difference between a ‘Happy Ending Massage’ and a Tantric Massage?
As a Somatic Sex Coach, premature ejaculation is probably the number one concern that clients bring to me. Often in Tantric Massages I will teach clients who experience premature ejaculation techniques that enable them to have more choice about when
Video: Why men find it difficult to seek help with sexual problems
Watch my video ‘Why men find it difficult to seek help with sexual problems’. English subtitles are available for this video by clicking on the CC button when it’s playing. The transcript of the audio can also be found below.
Video: Touch changes lives
Watch the video of the talk Touch Changes Lives delivered at The Sex Lectures Manchester in December 2018