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I saw this movie nearly a week ago and it’s still ‘with me’ so much so that I had to share with you some insights that have been percolating since. Granted, at first glance, this looks like a chick flick

So much of the porn industry, the wellbeing industry, pharmaceutical companies, Hollywood and especially the sexual wellness industry is focused on portraying idealized images of sexual prowess, masculinity and definitions of manhood. So much so, that most of us feel

Many men who come to me are seeking excitement and discovery of the unknown. And many more men come to me for help with problems with desire, intimacy and sex. Issues such as: Premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation Erection issues

This week I met Finbar Shields at an online erotic storytelling event. His words resonate so strongly with how I work with the tenderness and sensuality of men. This simply melted my heart . . . Nobody talks about how

I love working with you folks for lots of reasons and right now, one of those reasons that I am so grateful for is learning from you! I am inspired to answer this question after a conversation with one of

I love language and the way it affects our neuro circuitry, which in turn affects the way we feel about ourselves and behave towards ourselves and others. To me the very word ‘resolution’ brings to mind a fixed jaw, a

What do you do when you’ve done everything and you want more? So you’ve mastered being able to cum when you want, you have no problem with your erections, you feel OK with your body and your masturbation is going

Consent. It’s is a word that conjures up all manner of reactions and in my work, I’ve met most of them; from fear to apathy; anxiety to rolling of eyes and anger to curiosity and everything in between. And then there

If you want a better understanding of how Professional Sexuality Practitioners like me can help with all kinds of issues around sexual wellness and wellbeing then check out these two shows: Sex Actually with Alice Levine. This UK documentary series

The transition to the shorter days of autumn can have an impact for many of us on our libido, our levels of arousal and our availability for intimacy either with and for ourselves or with partners. Our sexual interest is