Unearthing my darkest fantasies isn’t something I thought I would ever be comfortable talking about publicly. But it’s part of the territory of being a safer practitioner – learning about myself – including the darker stuff. I’m basically doing the
Co-authored with Alison Pilling Not getting an erection or losing an erection during intimacy is for many men pretty much up there with losing your job or getting a divorce: it can be devastating! Through my work, I meet a
There’s a lot of stigma around men admitting that they are or have been, in an abusive relationship. What gets most often reported in the media is male-on-female abuse, but what’s rarely talked about is relationships where men are abused
One of the biggest obstacles that shows up in my work with clients is shame – not the sexiest of things to talk about yet it holds everyone back to some degree or another. I know from the last 6
Unsure where to start sorting out your sex life? Stepping into the Hero’s Journey could be a great start for you … Conceptualised by Joseph Campbell mid-last century, The Hero’s Journey was the result of his analysis of global religions
I saw this movie nearly a week ago and it’s still ‘with me’ so much so that I had to share with you some insights that have been percolating since. Granted, at first glance, this looks like a chick flick
So much of the porn industry, the wellbeing industry, pharmaceutical companies, Hollywood and especially the sexual wellness industry is focused on portraying idealized images of sexual prowess, masculinity and definitions of manhood. So much so, that most of us feel
Many men who come to me are seeking excitement and discovery of the unknown. And many more men come to me for help with problems with desire, intimacy and sex. Issues such as: Premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation Erection issues
This week I met Finbar Shields at an online erotic storytelling event. His words resonate so strongly with how I work with the tenderness and sensuality of men. This simply melted my heart . . . Nobody talks about how
I love working with you folks for lots of reasons and right now, one of those reasons that I am so grateful for is learning from you! I am inspired to answer this question after a conversation with one of