“Touched. How did you get here? Close your eyes… and surrender!”
Rumi
While I work primarily with men, I do offer Yoni Massage as part of the Tantric Massage For Couples experiences and as part of the Tantric Massage: Pleasure Your Partner experiences. I’ve gathered here some information for anyone looking to explore Yoni massage, either to learn to offer this gift or to receive a Yoni Massage.
What is a Yoni?
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vulva (external genitals) and vagina (internal genitals) of people who identify as women. The closest translation of the word Yoni into English is “a sacred space.” And in Tantric practices, as the name suggests, the Yoni is always treated with honour and respect.
What is a Yoni Massage?
A Yoni Massage is a sensual massage of the external and internal areas of this most revered part of the body. It is most often offered as part of a Tantric Massage. Optional external and internal anal pleasure can also be explored during a Yoni Massage.
What is Tantric Massage?
Please see my resources page entitled Discovering Tantra and Tantric Massage for more information.
Is Yoni Massage just about sex?
Surprisingly to most people, a Yoni Massage it isn’t about sex or foreplay, although arousal and orgasms can and often happen. In both Tantric and Yoni massage, the intention is that the giver is in service to the person receiving, so that the person receiving can totally relax knowing that they don’t have to do anything other than receive the honouring touch. There is no goal, nowhere to get to and no performance. It is simply loving, honouring touch that may, or may not lead to arousal and orgasm. Some couples use Yoni Massage as a precursor to deeper intimacy - but the intention first and foremost is to honour the Yoni and the Yoni owner.
What are the benefits of Yoni Massage?
- Offers a slow, methodical and sensual way to explore what feels good for the body
- Receivers can feel more comfortable in their own skin and more in tune with their own body
- Can help to ease the effects of sexual trauma
- A reconnecting with your body and developing a more body-positive perspective
- Can inspire body confidence and acceptance of the Yoni as a beautiful, sacred and powerful part of the whole body
- An opportunity to experience loving, honouring touch without the need to reciprocate or perform
- A loving way for partners to connect with each other
What about arousal and orgasm?
Yoni Massage can be very stimulating. Whole-body, loving touch before approaching more sensitive areas, enables arousal that comes from relaxation rather than tension which is most often experienced during intimacy. Orgasm and climax, even multiple orgasms are not the goal but may happen during the Yoni Massage. But that doesn’t mean this always has to be arousing, for many people the massage can bring more emotional releases rather than sexual. Or a mixture; tears, laughter and arousal can all happen and are all very welcome during a Yoni Massage.
Testimonial
This was a birthday present to myself - a Tantric Massage for the first time with a woman. The differences remain beyond my ability to express - the sensitivity, kindness, magical environment, attention to detail were simply exquisite.
Sian's in depth training and natural intuitive care meant that every question I had, including those I hadn't realised I had, were answered tenderly and clearly.
My actual massage experience remains private within my heart and Sian's heart, however I can say without question that I would recommend it to anyone, whether or not they are holding trauma, as a healing, expansive, beautiful and deeply honouring experience.
All love to you Sian, you're a Goddess.
AH, female aged 58
How to book a Yoni Massage
If you’d like to explore more about Yoni Massage with me, check out:
Tantric Massage: Pleasure Your Partner
Or arrange your free Consultation Call