“Touched. How did you get here? Close your eyes… and surrender!”
Rumi
Tantric Massage is an erotic massage technique that involves your full body — including your intimate areas. The goal is to relax your body, quieten your mind, enhance sensation, awaken your sexual energy and experience sexual pleasure more fully.
My name is Sian Johnson and I am a qualified Tantric Masseuse offering authentic Tantric Massage services in Leeds, Bradford, Huddersfield, Wakefield, Halifax, Keighley and Harrogate as well as the surrounding West Yorkshire area. I offer consultations both in-person and online so my programmes are still available to everyone no matter where they're based in the UK or worldwide….. Find out more about me, and find out what my clients are saying about me.
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage is a technique that is one part of a holistic Tantra Philosophy originating in ancient South Asia. Tantra prizes sexual energy or orgasmic energy as a vital life force energy and is considered sacred. Unlike most other massage methods, for example nuru massage, naturist massage or nude massage; Tantric massage incorporates spiritual elements like mindfulness, breathing techniques, movement and sound. These aim to relax the mind so that you can feel more sensation in your body.
Tantric Massage involves your full body including your erogenous zones and genitals and involves an awakening of all of the senses and celebrating your body – all of your body - as a place of pleasure and source of joy. In the Tantric Massage, the focus is on honouring you, your body and raising your levels of sexual energy to fuel your vitality.
What are the benefits of Tantric Massage?
One of the most beautiful benefits of Tantric Massage is its ability to help you experience pleasure from a non-judgemental place. All of you is welcome here, no matter your size, health, body shape or age (over 21 though please). You are welcome here with what you are bringing; from stress, emotions, trauma and sexual dysfunction all are accepted here without judgment. This in itself can be hugely powerful in creating a space for pleasure, joy, exploration and healing.
Some of the benefits of Tantric Massage include:
Improve the quality of your orgasms
Tantric Massage can include breathwork and other energy techniques to liberate your sexual energy which can improve your orgasm. Further exploration into Tantra techniques can help you separate orgasm from ejaculation (yes, they are separate functions but because they usually happen at the same time, this is new information for most people). And so some men, with practice, can become a multi-orgasmic man! See the Tantric Power for more information
Helping to ease pain
Loving touch to areas that are painful can help the body release natural pain killers called endorphins. Circulating sexual energy with an intention to heal pain in the body can support pain relief and healing.
Providing stress relief
Stress in the body is caused by the presence of chemicals such as Adrenaline and cortisol. These chemicals keep our nervous systems upregulated – and sometimes over activated and it can be difficult, when we habitually live in an upregulated state to find time to unwind and bring the body back in to regulation and relaxation. Tantric Massage can help you downregulate, process these chemicals and allow you to drop into relaxation where safety chemicals are then produced
Improving sleep
Tantric Massage can be a beautiful experience. When receiving loving, honouring touch in an environment of safety, trust can develop which helps your body release the feel-good connection hormone Oxytocin. Stress hormones and other chemicals in the bloodstream begin to dissipate and your body can rest for deeper and for longer.
Assist with spiritual awakening
Tantra works with energy centres in the body called Chakras. The seven main chakras deal with different energies relating to sex, power, creativity, belonging and connection, ambition, personal power, love for self and others, transformation, self expression, intuition and connection to our spirituality. Tantra does not require you to identify with a specific spiritual deity or doctrine, but invites more of a personal connection to something that is bigger than us. Some call this god, some spirit, the universe, our higher consciousness, source or the collective consciousness.
By working with your sexual energy, we can encourage a stronger connection between our sex and our heart. And from there a connection between sex, heart and whatever represents spirituality for you.
Treatment of common sexual dysfunctions
Tantric touch techniques are integrated with the latest insights from Sexological Bodywork, Trauma Awareness and talk therapy training to bring a mix of traditional Tantric wisdom with the latest developments in nervous system and neurobiology to offer a holistic approach to sexual dysfunction. Tantric Massage can help address:
- Premature ejaculation
- Delayed ejaculation
- Erectile dysfunction
- Sexual stamina
- Body image and confidence
- Relationship loss and recovery
- Mature virginity
- Sexual performance
- Premature ejaculation
- Delayed ejaculation
- Erectile dysfunction
- Sexual stamina
- Body image and confidence
- Relationship loss and recovery
- Mature virginity
- Sexual performance
Testimonials
“What an amazing, wonderful and enlightening experience!”
“It was a sensual, consensual and sensational experience. What more can I say? I was taken to the edge and then beyond the boundaries of my previous experience. Thank you so much.”
“How can I put into words how much I enjoyed our session… I felt like a different person over the weekend, just taking it all in. Seem much more relaxed and less stressed overall so something has worked. The session itself was amazing. Never felt like that before […] can’t wait for my next visit”
“I want to give thanks for Thursday’s appointment. It was extremely valuable and worthwhile for me, a top-drawer experience. The business-like approach combined with a friendly atmosphere was very good. As well as the pure pleasure of the day, you carefully coached me in the areas I needed to pay attention to and identified a key area where I need to give attention.”
“The whole bodywork session was the deepest I have ever experienced and just life changing. I had accepted defeat in ever fully expressing my masculine side again! You have given glimpses of how to do it and how I have taken the wrong approach for so long. Your generosity in giving is a gift to me that I will always treasure. It was the key that unlocked me and guided me through my fears to a wonderful, wonderful experience. Thank you so, so much for that, thank you for simply being you! It was everything I hoped for.”
“WOW! I have truly experienced the most amazing experience today. I can’t find the words to describe how you have made me feel. Your touch is truly magic and the way you connect your whole body to mine was phenomenal.”
“I enjoyed my Tantric massage experience enormously and I can tell you that the somatic impact of it has been seismic. I checked my blood pressure later yesterday evening and it had dropped significantly. I also have the impression that you have reached a deeper place within me than I was aware of, and that the physicality of the body/aura work left me with a sense of ‘rebirth’. There is little doubt that you released some long-standing stress tension that I may have been bottling up and that this came at the right time after a difficult period in my life.”
“My session yesterday was nothing short of amazing. Already I feel a deeper connection with myself and able to embrace my sexual energy, where before it felt like a threat.
A real sense that you were right there with me gave me, for the first time an opportunity to explore my sexual energy and already, having travelled home today, slowly with some stops, I can feel a chance in other areas of my life. My energy has been truly cleansed.
Thanks to our conversations, I also now have some more gentle words for my processes, cleanse, rather than detox being one example.
I felt safe and held, both emotionally and physically throughout, as well as being aware of how tightly I was gripping your hands at certain times.
I have also now had the opportunity to experience giving and taking sexual pleasure in healthy space, probably for the first time in my life.
I now feel excited about my sexual energy.
At present I’m going to feel it, sit with it and enjoy the feelings of freedom I feel and wait to see what the Universe has planned for me.
Now I have experienced what it feels like to be in consent, I intend to continue living in this place.
With gratitude and warm wishes.”
“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It was the perfect way to address the situation that I find myself in and is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward. The exercises you sent me will help with this and I have begun to use them when I can. Anything that encompasses spirituality, tantra and mindfulness will be beneficial, I’m sure. I am realistic enough to know that there will be challenges along the way. Re-awakening my libido will fill me with energy that I want to use in a positive manner.”
“I’m messaging you nearly a year from when we last met. I wanted to take the opportunity to extend my gratitude to you for the work we undertook together — it was foundational in my journey and the changes have been life changing in my relationships with self and others. The journey continues for myself and I have had the opportunity to undertake further learnings and courses in my development. I hope one day we can work together again.”
“I really wanted to say a massive thank you for our time last week. I can’t quite put into words the positive feelings I have had since the session.
The massage alone was so relaxing and enlightening. It’s safe to say it helped unlock (in a positive way) some things I had locked away. The fact you took the time to sit there, have a chat and actually listen helped greatly for what was about to come.
The environment you created to allow me to feel free and yes naked in front of another women for the first time in many years, was truly liberating.
I knew from the outset the session wasn’t necessarily about sexual gratification but an internal release of energy and emotion which is exactly what it was. I have to say the body-to-body elements were amazing. Your levels of touch were for me during this session just perfect. They were intense, erotic, and highly sensual but yet reassuring and far from overwhelming, to which I must thank you.
The session overall exceeded all of my expectations from start to finish.”
“I’m safely home now and I must tell you how much I enjoyed the tantric massage you gave me. It was completely authentic and professional. From my point of view, it was so relaxing and healing. I can only say it is such a shame that I live so far away and at 96 years there will be few times l shall be in the vicinity. I will certainly contact you if I am.”
“From the moment you opened the door with a friendly smile and reassuring hug, you put me at ease straight away. I would like to thank you for our chat and for listening to me. Thank you for your kind words of wisdom which I shall take onboard. The massage was amazing – your touch and guidance took me on an incredible journey of discovery. I learned many things about my body which I didn’t know existed. The feelings of bliss and pleasure were beyond anything I have experienced.”
“I really enjoyed Charlotte’s massage yesterday. She is very intelligent, warm, inviting and empathetic. It was very easy to make a great connection with her and the time just flew by. Her massage skills are amazing. I will be seeing her again.” K
“I have to say this was the best appointment yet, right in all details and good fun too. It was nice to work through undressing, and it set the scene well. My development intentions were met very fully indeed, with marvellous and nearly overpowering sensations taking me beyond previous limits and experiences. Absolutely superb and will remain in my sensory memory in times to come. Thank you, Charlotte.” M
“From the moment we met on Zoom for our free consultation, Charlotte put me completely at ease.
She has a calming presence and focuses 100% of her attention on you.
This was my first experience with Tantric Massage, so I was a little apprehensive.
I needn’t have been.
Upon arrival, we sat and checked in, allowing me to decompress from the day I’d had and the anxiety of crossing the threshold.
The next few hours drifted by with waves of relaxation washing over me, aided by conscious breathwork and mindfulness—being present in the moment rather than letting my thoughts distract me.
Charlotte guided me throughout, either gently asking what I wanted or indicating what was about to happen.
I felt safe and valued at all times.
I also appreciated being treated as an equal, despite my novice understanding of chakras and Tantric Massage.
We laughed a little here and there; it all felt very natural, allowing me to go with the flow.
Speaking of which, the body glides felt like the best human hug I’ve ever had. I didn’t want them to end.
Thank you, Charlotte, for allowing me to safely explore Tantric Massage and opening up the possibility of a more rounded and loving experience with others in my life.
It opened the door to future transformation, which is precisely what my intention was.”
“I was very new to all of this, and my nerves showed a little at times. But you were so patient, with such an inviting energy, and you created something truly transportive. Your communication was open and reassuring, and I felt a genuine trust in your guidance. I feel like there’s more to discover in that space with you.”
“I really enjoyed my massage—thank you.
You gave me such a warm welcome, and I truly appreciated your kindness and professionalism.
I felt completely at ease throughout the entire process and very fulfilled by the experience.
I’ve been in great spirits ever since.”
“I really enjoyed my massage on Sunday, thank you. You gave me a very warm welcome, I really enjoyed the undressing with your lovely underwear and body to match. I felt very much at ease through the whole process and felt very fulfilled when it was finished. I have been in good spirits since.”
What to expect from a Tantric Massage session?
Appointments are a minimum of two hours but can, if you choose, last up to 4 hours. I take you on a journey of the senses, from conversation at the beginning through the gradual stages of building rapport and feeling trust, connection and enough relaxation before moving into the touch massage itself.
Prostate Massage
Prostate massage is touching and massaging of the prostate gland. The prostate gland can, in some people, be felt by pressing on the perineum but is better accessed by massaging through the walls of the rectum by inserting a finger through the anus and searching for a walnut textured gland. It is my experience that some people do not enjoy anal play and prostate massage. However, a greater number of people who come for a Tantric Massage want to and enjoy exploring prostate massage and anal play. Make sure you ask about this when you speak with me on your free Consultation Call. For more on anal play, you can Watch my video (12 minutes).
Lingam Massage
Lingam massage is an extended genital massage. Rather than a traditional ‘happy ending massage’, a Lingam massage focuses on using different types of touch honouring touch to all areas of the genitals. - this long slow and honouring touch can help to ease those fears. More on Lingam Massage here.
Frequently asked questions
Are you naked during Tantric Massage?
Yes. There are similarities between the Tantric Massage I offer to a naked body massage, sometimes called a naturist massage, in that you and I are completely naked during the massage. This enables lots of warm oil to be used without worrying about clothes getting spoiled and allows a naked oil massage with close connected touch.
Can I touch you during Tantric Massage?
No. One of the aims of Tantric Massage is for you to be able to fully relax into your body and into your experience. In my experience, men who want to touch are simply looking for extra pleasure from that touch – we call this the indirect route to pleasure - and can take you away from the direct route to pleasure that you can experience from allowing yourself to fully receive. So the intention, in this massage, is to open up your direct routes to pleasure, for you to relax, receive and experience touch that is specifically and lovingly offered for you.
Can I cum during a Tantric Massage
The short answer is that you can choose whether you want to cum or not. I don’t assume whether you will or won't ejaculate. I like to offer you the choice; why? Because Tantra advocates for enjoying sexual pleasures without ejaculating. The idea is that by not ejaculating you can preserve your sexual energy to use instead to fuel your life and this is part of the practice to begin separating orgasm from ejaculation and becoming multi-orgasmic. However, some men do not want to explore this and so, I cater for all clients; those that do and those that don’t want to. You get to choose!
Session details and prices:
Tantric Massage Just for you
For 2 hours £250
For 3 hours £325
For 4 hours £425
Additional hours £100
One to one Tantric Massage tuition
Full day 8 hours at £900
Additional hours £100
Tantric Massage Day Retreat for one couple
Full day 8 hours at £900
Tantric Power: Bespoke Tantra for You - Day retreats
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An initial Introduction session - for those new to working with me: 2 hours at £250
Full-day retreat experience: 8 hours £1,200
Additional hours and 24 hour retreats can be arranged